Do you remember the masterpiece ‘Fatal Attraction’ starring Michael Douglas and Glenn Close? He, a married man, had a short affair with long term consequences. His one weekend lover becomes obsessed with the idea of a love relationship, and turns into a dangerous stalker that stops at nothing to have the aforementioned man all for herself.

Now, the movie ‘Obsessed’, starring Beyonce Knowles, Idris Elba and Ali Lartar, has a somewhat similar plot. Yet, the married man here avoids having an affair with a woman who temporarily works at his office. Her obsession is based on a pure fantasy that grows in her mind as the movie progresses. read more…

“Women don’t want to hear what you think. Women want to hear what they think – in a deeper voice.”

Bill Cosby

You don’t know what you have until it’s gone.

1. Designer: Alice+Olivia~ The parker scarf dress is a perfect dress for an ‘all you can eat’ dinner. You look sexy and elegant and still don’t have to worry about a full tummy.

2. Designer: 291 ~ The off shoulder dress would be a great outfit for a date. You only reveal your shoulder that will make him wonder.

3. Designer: The J. Peterman Company ~ The 1950s summer dress is something you can definitely wear for a Sunday brunch with your girlfriends. Brunch with style.

4. Designer: Susana Monaco ~ The string with flair dress is a outfit for any occasion. You can rock it to work, impress your date or show off at a party. Simple, black and unforgettable.

5. Designer: Marc by Marc Jacobs ~ This elegant summer dress a la pretty woman is something you can wear for lunch with a special someone and a after lunch shopping spree. The pretty woman effect is guaranteed.

6. Designer: Alberta Ferretti ~ The chain-embellished dress is definitely my favorite dress, and of course, the most expensive one. I would definitely save this dress for a very special occasion. A perfect city hall dress, if you know what I mean.

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If you want to revel in body confidence, turn off that self-critical tape that’s on a loop in your head.

● Quit cracking “jokes” about your body. “Even casual, half-kidding self-assessments get lodged in your brain as truth,” says Jeffers. Get into the habit of censoring yourself every time you’re about to utter a derogatory comment like “I’ll probably need a minus-A cup for my pancake chest.”

● Put yourself in the hot seat. “When negative beliefs creep into your mind, fight back and challenge each one like a trial lawyer,” says Mininni. If you think, I’ve gained so much weight, ask yourself What evidence is there? Have I had to throw out my old clothes and buy larger sizes? If the answer is no, you’ll have to face the harsh truth— you haven’t packed on the pounds.

● Listen to what those voices are really saying. Insecure thoughts can be deceiving. “They usually occur because you’re feeling powerless or scared in some aspect of your life,” says Los Angeles hypnotherapist Nancy Irwin, PsyD. So when that inner bitch taunts you, ask What’s really bothering me? Maybe you had a spat with your guy or you’re anxious about work. Identify the true source of your angst so you can ditch self-hate and tackle the real issue.

● Look at “I’m a hottie” evidence. Beth, 29*, blasts her body blues by flipping through a photo album she’s filled with the most flattering pictures of herself. “Seeing proof that I am attractive, despite what my mind is saying, makes me feel great about myself again,” she says.

● Enjoy being eye candy. Do you ever burn with self-consciousness when a guy checks you out— even if it’s your boyfriend trying to cop a stare as you make a dash sans clothes to the bathroom? Learn to love being ogled and your sex appeal—and confidence—will go through the roof.

● Step into his headspace. We assume that guys are just as hard on our bodies as we are, but that’s so not true. “Men admire the whole package,” says psychologist Sheenah Hankin, PhD, author of Complete Confidence. “They don’t pick you apart, and they don’t look longingly if they’re not liking what they see.” So when a babe is feasting his peepers on you in bed, remind yourself that he’s appreciating the scenery, not cataloging your “flaws.” read more…