Posts from the ‘Game Of Love’ Category

I keep hearing and reading the same two words: Love sucks. What happened to love? It seems that we just can’t work it out. A man and a woman just can’t manage to be together anymore. I have been trying to figure out what could be the reasons for the failure of our relationships, and I came up with the following  few:

1. We don’t need each other to “survive”. Back in the days, way before Myspace and Facebook and Twitter and, and, and, people needed each other to survive and/or to improve their status. Today, it seems that the other person is more a burden than an addition.

2. Selection, selection and selection. We have too many choices. If one guy/girl doesn’t do it, another guy/girl might. We don’t stick around to find out what the other person is really about. We just keep it moving to the next.

3. Internet and Transportation. You don’t know anyone who lives on your block, but you do know a couple of guys who live across the country. Not only that you know them, you have met them, dated them, and now you are not feeling them. Transportation and Internet made it possible for us to “beam” ourselves anywhere we may think the perfect guy lives.

4. Sex is worthless. Going to dinner has more value than having sex. Back in the good old days when a girl said no, the guy patiently waited for his lucky moment. The lucky moment was the wedding night. Today sex comes before titles, deep conversations and romantic moments.

5. Independent women. Our independency took unexpected turn. Every guy wants an independent woman; hardly any guy knows how to handle one. It doesn’t matter how independent we are, we still need affection and attention.

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2thickmiss is a  great girlfriend to have. She knows exactly what it takes to be self-confident and doesn’t mind to share her secrets with us.

1. Get a new haircut, outfit, and a new attitude. When I wake up some mornings feeling bad, I spruce up extra nice and it makes me feel better.

2. Manicures, pedicures, candlelit bubble baths and massages do wonders for your self-esteem.

3. Disconnect yourself from negative people, even if they are your significant others or family members. You may not realize it, but negative spirits cause YOU to become chronic negative thinkers. When all you hear are bad things, then you tend to start beliving them. Loose yourself! I don’t fool with my own mother for that very reason. You don’t need to listen to people telling you what you CAN’T DO, adopt some friends that tell you, YOU CAN DO IT.

4. Chill out, quit frowning, complaining and crying. Avoid situations that cause you to be upset. If you know everytime you go to Aunt Clara’s for Christmas dinner, there is always this family member dogging you, don’t go back. Hold the next dinner at your place and disinvite her/him and don’t feel bad about it. The law of the world is survival of the fittest, and if you are the weakest link, you must say good-bye.

5. Learn how to be selfish. If you don’t love who you are, then why should anyone else? When you love yourself and treat yourself right, you’re showing others how to love you and treat you right. And if they don’t like who you are, F**CK em! You don’t need them anyway.

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What is soul ? It’s like electricity – we don’t really know what it is, but it’s a force that can light a room. The soul is your unique self-aware essence. It incorporates the inner essence of you, and is the true basis for sapience. You are shaped by your thoughts; you become what you think.

When your mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow that never leaves. Your mind refers to the aspects of intellect and consciousness manifested as combinations of thought, perception, memory, emotion, will and imagination; mind is your stream of consciousness.

Your body is the integral physical material. We all want to look our best, but a healthy body is not always linked to appearance. Healthy bodies come in all shapes and sizes. Changing your body image means changing the way you think about your body. At the same time, healthy lifestyle can definitely improve your body image.

Are you waiting to exhale?

I was waiting to EXHALE. While in line to exhale, I got tired of waiting and I decided to exhale. Right NOW. Right at this very moment. I took a deep breath. I smiled. I made a cup of coffee. I turned on my favorite song. I cleaned my apartment. I got my hair and nails done. I got a massage. I signed up for a gym (and I actually still visit that facility). I read an interesting article. I called my best FRIEND. I told my mother that I LOVE her more than I can ever show her. I bought flowers. I wished the flower guy a wonderful day. I looked in the mirror, and I saw a little girl smiling back at me. I felt great. I felt happy. I am not waiting anymore, I am FINALLY exhaling.